Warning: This story contains mentions of suicide. Wayne Toh’s life unravelled when his wife did not return home one night. She divorced Wayne, leaving him to care for their 4 kids on his own. Broken-hearted with tight finances, he contemplated to end his life. One night, he cried out in desperation, “God, I don’t have the strength to fight… I can’t take it, please help me.” The very next morning, Wayne’s son left an item by his bedside. It said, ‘Dads for Life’. Wayne wept at the perfect timing of this message. “I knew God was telling me that to be a father is for life. I cannot give up.” Today, Wayne has single-handedly raised his children for 12 years. He says, “I wanted to walk out of the shadow of shame and encourage other single parents not to look down on ourselves.” Wayne sees his kids as his greatest success.